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Church Based Youth Focus Weekend

What is a Youth Focus Weekend?

Many of you will know that churches are struggling to reach and keep young people in their congregations -

  • a cursory glance around any of our church congregations or parish groups would quickly enable us to see that there is an absence of young people between the ages of thirteen to twenty years.
  • 71% of the teenagers who go to church at the age of fourteen would have stopped doing so by the time they reach the age of twenty.
  • 45% of dropouts were from people under 22 years old.
  • in 30 years there had been a massive decline in the number of young churchgoers.

    (References available on request)

The purpose of the youth focus weekend is to help you turn the tide for your area and help you create an attractive, growing ministry to youth.

The weekend works with existing youthwork as well as with those churches wanting a youth ministry to emerge because the content of the time is tailored to meet your specific requirements. It can also work well within a town or region where several churches combine to receive training and support.

It is designed to increase awareness of the needs of youth and the benefits of having them in your church . It also provides training for parents, youth workers, eldership and young people themselves.

At the least it provides fresh impetus for a church to invest [time, effort and resources] into young people and at best it provokes new initiatives, revives existing structures and brings growth to your congregation.

Components Available

A youth focus weekend could not possibly include all of these components so you would need to decide on your priorities, additionally each component will be tailored to your needs and timeline.

Understanding Teenagers Seminar


An international seminar geared at helping parents [and others] understand teenagers. It includes
  • Biblical basis
  • Initiation and the teenager
  • Adolescence
  • The process of change
  • Sexuality
  • Conflict
  • Faith
  • Values you will need
  • Formulating vision
  • Making [and keeping] rules
  • Dare to discipline
  • Maintaining communication
  • Creating support

The seminar can take between 3 and 9 hours and includes 43 pages of notes!


Youthworker training


A variety of topics is available and the content is totally flexible depending on the time allocated. Feel free to discuss any particular needs you have which could include :

  • Reaching and Keeping Teenagers
  • Relational Youth Ministry
  • Vision, strategy and goals
  • Balancing family and ministry life
  • Program planning with the individual in mind
  • Maintaining your spiritual life whilst coaching others in theirs.
  • How to grow your group
  • Emerging leaders
  • Organisational skills
  • Personal growth


Youth event


It would be a good opportunity - maybe on the Saturday night - to host a youth event. We will provide a youth speaker with an evangelistic message and we can assist in the planning prior to the weekend. They often provide a focus for the youth to work towards.


Training for youth to win their friends for Christ.


Many Christian young people are scared of talking about their faith with their friends, school can be a hostile environment. This training encourage them to :

  • Share their faith one on one
  • Stand up for their beliefs in school/college
  • Develop a deeper relationship with God
  • Write the truth in school assignments
  • Live the one life and kill their double identity crisis


Sunday service


As a minimum it would be good to have an opportunity to report back on the weekend to your congregation and we can provide a speaker for your regular Sunday service[s] with a focus on parenting, youth or many other topics.


Elders/oversight strategic planning for youth ministry

We can assist in the planning of youth ministry from a church perspective including helping design a job description and person profile for a potential youth worker. We can also provide guidance in understanding youth, youthworkers and even provide mediation when required!.

Ongoing coaching

We can provide ongoing coaching [through scheduled telephone contact] to ensure that what has been started will continue to work for you. The weekend is NOT designed to be a one-off focus but a long term commitment to youth.

Pastor Nigel Lane is a great youth communicator and able to bring life and understanding to your youth in these troubled times. I thoroughly recommend him to you. Pastor Roy Hullah
I highly recommend Nigel and Jan Lane as 2 people who demonstrate a genuine love and concern for young people , with a capacity to connect, encourage and equip them for life and ministry. Graeme Bradley Senior Pastor, Barrabool Hills Baptist Community Church.
Ps. Nigel Lane has a natural rapport with youth and an understanding of their perspective. Nigel and Jan confidently and competently work together presenting insightful and informative seminars that bring a fresh understanding. I whole heartedly recommend them. Jake Hogendoorn, Senior Minister, Drysdale Christian Fellowship
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The way forward?

The number of weekends available each year are limited so it is good to begin talking 3 months in advance of when you are wanting to schedule [it may be possible to do one sooner but unlikely].

Pricing: We seek to recover any travel, accommodation and refreshment expenses and are quite happy with your considered gift beyond that - whatever the size. Our aim is to minister as freely as possible. Ongoing coaching has a pricing structure dependant on the level of involvement. This can be discussed before, during or after our visit.

Indeed, it is possible to host the weekend without the ongoing coaching as well as obtaining ongoing coaching without the weekend.

To book or to discuss things further please contact us

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