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Understanding Teenagers Seminars - a parent's guide to adolescence

Nigel and Jan are experienced presenters of a seminar entitled - Understanding Teenagers. They can be delivered in various formats with the ideal being a Friday night and a Saturday daytime. The seminars need to have 20 participants, each being supplied with a 40 plus page manual of notes - the contents page is shown below.

A master copy of the notes is supplied to the host organisation which they copy for each participant. We aim to keep costs as low as possible so that many parents can benefit from the material. The seminar charge is $150 plus travel expenses. Feel free to email to make further enquiries.

If you prefer, you can purchase the full document - again we keep the cost low to allow maximum benefit. The full document can be purchased for just $5.

Contents Page

Introduction

Where we're coming from: research and experience in Youth Work and its impact on parenting.
The River Wild: our approach to the journey through adolescence: the value of preparation.


Stage 1: Knowing the Landscape

1.1 Bible Base: The Bible speaks clearly of a God who wants to be involved in the process of adolescence and invests in the adults who will emerge.
1.2 Initiation and the Teenager: When will they grow up?
1.3 Adolescence: Three Key Phases.
1.4 The Process of Change: Adolescence is a period of rapid change.
1.5 Roots and Wings: Stability with encouragement to grow.
1.6 You are on a journey too! As parents you are changing too.


Stage 2: Planning the Route

2.1 Landmarks you will meet: Warning - incoming values.
Beware - shifting sands.
2.2 Sexuality: The unexploded bomb.
2.3 Conflict: Know you are being tested - this is not the real war .
2.4 T.A.L.K: A framework to help plan the route.
2.5 Faith: Cultivate a working faith.
2.6 Values you will need: Six core values.


Stage 3: Packing for the Journey

3.1 Formulating Vision: Instill a sense of vision for you and your children.
3.2 Making Rules: Set the boundaries before the teenage years.
3.3 Dare to Discipline: Discipline makes them part of the family.
3.4 Maintaining Communication: Creative ideas to help.
3.5 Clearing Out the Rubbish: Face the issues in your own life.
3.6 Creating Support: Who is in it with you?
3.7 Praying it Through: It's reassuring that God knows what it's like to be a parent of a teenager.


Stage 4: The Journey Through Single Parenting [if applicable]


Stage 5: The Last Word: Faith, Hope and Love

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